Where Did November Go?

Hello.

Today is December 7th. It was yesterday, on my last day of classes at college, that I remembered that I have not blogged in a very long time.

It is the end of my semester and time for reflection. In September, when I hurriedly registered and bought books, I began what I thought would be the first of three semesters towards gaining a BA in English. Somewhere around October, I realized that even though I loved the learning and the people, the degree wouldn't give me much in terms of improvement of our overall family situation~income~and I'd have to rethink my plan.

It took me a very long time, and I spoke with oodles of people (thank you editors, publishers, college advisors, professors and yes, my husband). I decided that I would switch tracks and head in a different direction by going for a Masters of Science in Teaching grades 1-6, beginning, hopefully, in January.

But to say that this semester was a waste of time, energy and money would be a huge mistake. I began the semester literally trying to "hide" from my daughter. I didn't want to rain on her parade at college or embarass her. Boy was I so far from understanding the great lady my daughter is. When she found out, and she did, she met me on my next class day, in the pouring rain, with a hug, a card and an "I'm proud of you." From that moment on, I had a friend on campus.

It is so cool going to college with your daughter. I understand her struggles (college-wise) and she understand mine too. Her social concerns are similar to what mine were and not similar because "the times, they are a changin" but mostly it was good to talk, spend time in her dorm room and share meals with her. I am going to miss that so much next semester.

I also met some very intelligent and very cool future "mover and shakers" in the world. Smart, assertive, articulate and curious women are gearing up to lead the "oldies" onto bigger, better and hopefully friendlier times.

There is still a very strong desire to marry and have children, which I do not in and of itself, find unplesant, but in light of total years to do things, I find it disheartening that there is a "rush" to do this next phase of life. My heart's desire is to see each of these beautiful women settle into a life that encompasses exploring their career choice and places to live and "see the world." It is vital that each of us become global in our perception and bring it to the local community. Marriage and children will be there when you are done exploring for a few years. Once you have them, you have them for life.

Anyways, the next 12 months promise to be busy with classes and getting my book out to the public.

Oh, I forgot to mention that...my terrific publisher found the most talented, creative and intuitive illustrator I could ever have hoped for. She read the text and interpreted it better than my minds-eye did. I am truly honored to receive her creativity. I will tell you all about it in future writings. Yes, I will write again soon.

I hope your Thanks-living, I mean Thanksgiving was peaceful and family filled. I hope your upcoming holiday season, be it Christmas, Hannakah or other, will be filled with wonder and happiness.

I will write soon. Until then...
Have Hope,
Donna

PS. Hi Janelle!